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THWARTED BLISS.



I guess the devil has tricked a surprisingly great number of people into believing that childbearing is the ONLY reason a man and woman should come together.

Childbearing is only one of the reasons among MUTUAL FULFILMENT OF god-given PURPOSE, EMOTIONAL FULFILLMENT and SWEET COMPANIONSHIP.

However, quite regrettably, an alarming percentage of marriages,even in the Church (as a result of incorrect premarital teachings about love)lack the other ingredients, having childbearing as the only feat to boast of.

This unfortunate reality where childbearing is the only spice most marriages have holding them together or to look up to has made cheating and the host of other marriage vices nearly inevitable!

Because of getting married to the wrong partners, most marriages have metamorphosed just into institutions of endurance instead of the god-proposed institutions of ever-green extraterrestrial bliss and sweetness.

More, a close careful look at the  marriages that have this deformity(a huge percentage actually) leaves most single folks dreading the concept of marriage.

This is the reason the phenomenon and incidence of BABY MAMAs and single motherhood are on the spike today. These days, a huge number of our single ladies simply confide in you that deep in their minds, they want to have kids on their own - without marriage - so they can escape the prison they observe from a distance called being under a man in the name of marriage.

This is simply the devil's coy.
He knows that marriage and the family  are at the bedrock of God's plan for man's total salvation.

That's why the Church and the family are the devil's primary targets today.

MARRIAGE IS SWEET.

THE KEY:
MARRY WHOM YOU LOVE(whom you are passionate about)AND WHO LOVES (is passionate about) YOU, too!

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