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LOVE ALONE vs DISCIPLINE and COMMITMENT.

LOVE vs DISCIPLINE and COMMITMENT.

Love has a central pivotal most vital "central midfielder" role to play in fidelity/being faithful in relationships and marriage.

Self-discipline and commitment are quite important; nevertheless, they play only a supportive role - like a "supporting striker" assisting the main striker!

See: discipline, commitment, etc can fail(under pressure, duress, etc); but love - genuine true love - cannot fail.

Discipline and commitment, and the other ingredients that support love in a relationship can and do fail when love is NOT present - like Barca without their dear Messi!

But, love without the other supporting ingredients of a relationship may be quite much stressed and strained, maimed and weakened; but can NEVER FAIL!

This is why it's very RISKY to marry someone for whom you don't feel much emotions.

#GenuineMutualLoveCan'tCheat!

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